Last Friday a man came into our drop-in center to ask for
help getting his elderly brother, José, to Portland . Apparently José was being resettled
as a refugee in the United
States but since he could not remember where
exactly his brother lived, he was being sent to another city. José’s brother
was beside himself with worry that José, who speaks no English, would be alone
in a strange city and that he would never see him again. Since he himself had
been resettled by Catholic Charities years ago, he came to us for help getting
his brother to Portland .
I spent the next several days making phone calls to the other side of the
country and sending inquiries to national offices. In the end, we figured out
where José was going and requested that his case be transferred to our office
in Portland .
Though it took a little while to track down his case, it was very special to me
that I got to be a part of reuniting a family.
Our case managers are frequently involved in family
reunifications. Among the first questions refugee arrivals ask our case
managers is how they can help family members to join them in the United States .
Many refugees are separated from family members in the course of fleeing their
home country or even during the resettlement process. If your refugee family
feels comfortable talking about it, ask them about family they may have
overseas—it may surprise you who they had to leave behind. If a refugee with
whom you volunteer does ask about bringing family members to the United States ,
please refer them to their case manager (the process is complicated!).